Nope, not me.

Mine was a 10 year relationship and she wasn’t my wife…

Sounds like you have someone who is (or was) in your life who shouldn’t be.

I also work disability support - I have no money to throw around ;)

Seconded.

I had a mate who didn’t speak with his parents, lost his job and left his partner.

Took him in, rent free for 6 months. Got him on his feet, he got a new job and 6 months later he left… With my 10 year relationship. And my cat (but to be fair my ex was a vet so it made sense that she took him)

I thought he was a friend.

My wife. I want her to get better, though. Depression is a cunt. So is her abusive ex husband.