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    4 months ago

    I imagine they do what any selfish person would do: find a way to get what they want. If they are bound by religious rules that prevent them from stealing or lying, they’ll figure out a way to manipulate others to get what they want. One popular way among manipulators is to trigger a sense of guilt or obligation, then present as a victim. The victim of the manipulator will do something to address their discomfort. Seeing the manipulator presenting as a victim, the manipulator would likely be the recipient of behaviors meant to relieve the true victim’s emotions.

    Example

    Manipulator: I have fallen on such horrible times and need things. I’m hoping someone in our religious community listens to the guidance in our religion that directs us to help each other in times of need. Lucky for you, you don’t have to worry about that, right? I’m so happy it’s just me and not someone else. I would be so distraught if you fell on hard times.

    Victim: Oh yeah, I’m lucky. Since I’m in such a good position, I will give you things.